BEING an ONLY CHILD the FAMILY

 Human is an animal and wills reproduce by have child but of course this brings some problems. One of this problems is the number of children. How many children wants the parents and how could they decide this number, is having an only one child the best or are there disadvantages having or being an only child? We are going to 
focus on the disadvantages of being an only child in this article.

 

 Some people think that having no sibling triggers social phobia, having difficulty establishing a relationship, selfishness and over attachment to parents. Yes, these may be, however, parents may be oppressive, overprotective either so these are disadvantages of being an only child in a family.  


 A child who has no sibling grows up single and could spend time only with parents in family and trust only his parents  so could not interact with a peer and this causes hardnesses to making friends and trusting friends and new people which newly knowing. Over protection also causes same problems.  

 Over attachment may be a really serious problem. The person who grew up as the only child the family can devote his whole life to his parents and ignore his own life. That is why he or she may not able to have a healthy social, academic or career life, or even realize it. 

 When you are the one child of a family your parents may be give the all their attentions to you but really all their attentions and it may be toxic. For instance; you have to get to highest grade all exams, you have to speak two more language and play instruments even though you do not want.

 Over protectiveness is another disadvantage of being an only child the family. Parents think that ‘’She or he is my only child and I have to imprison him or her at home so that no harm can come to him or her.’’ this may sounds weird but some parents do absolutely that. It may be trigger to anxiety, depression and social phobia.

 Summing up, growing without any siblings may be cause social and psychological disorders. In this case parents have to think about it properly and they have to have ideas about pedagogy before having child.

 

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